The so-called opt-out revolution by stay-at-home moms “is not and never has been and will not be a revolution,” says one sociologist—and statistics from the most recent census support that point. The term was coined to describe well-educated women leaving high-powered careers to raise children, but census figures show most stay-at-home moms are younger, less educated, and have lower family incomes.
“I do think there is a small population, a very small population, that is opting out, but with the nationally representative data, we're just not seeing that,” a demographer tells the Washington Post. The report contrasts with the recent pop-culture focus on opting out, including books and television shows like Desperate Housewives that explore the balancing act between work and family. (More mother stories.)