Celebrity / Mel Gibson Babymama Files Restraining Order Against Mel Gibson Guess that breakup wasn't so friendly after all By Evann Gastaldo, Newser Staff Posted Jun 25, 2010 11:32 AM CDT Copied Mel Gibson's ex-girlfriend, Russian-born singer, songwriter Oksana Grigorieva, gestures during a news conference in Moscow, Monday, April 19, 2010. (AP Photo/Mikhail Metzel) Turns out it was actually Oksana Grigorieva who got a restraining order against Mel Gibson, and not the other way around. Her lawyers filed paperwork Monday alleging violence at Gibson’s hands. A source tells TMZ he got “extremely violent” with his babymama, but a source close to Mel says she's "crying wolf." Radar earlier reported Mel was the one who got the order, which he did—but only to prohibit Grigorieva from releasing information, TMZ notes. (More Mel Gibson stories.) Report an error